Ever since I turned 18, I have found myself entranced by the mysterious world of dating. To be honest, I wasn’t the typical handsome guy most girls swooned over. Neither was I the charismatic extrovert who could effortlessly charm any woman he met. I was just an ordinary guy with a pocket full of dreams and a burning passion for entrepreneurship.
At that point in life, I had the resources but not the natural flair when it came to attracting women. Thus, I embarked on my journey to master the art of online dating, a journey that spanned over 15 challenging yet fulfilling years. From decoding female psychology to devising compelling pickup lines, I experimented, stumbled, learned, and eventually, mastered the game.
Fast forward to now, my passion has driven me to create a thriving community where people can share their experiences, learn from each other, and most importantly, uplift one another in the often daunting realm of dating. This community is where the idea of AI Wingman was born, a groundbreaking tool that blends AI’s potential with my two-decade-long expertise.
Now, let’s dive into the world of online dating platforms. Having navigated through these platforms extensively, I can confidently say that each has its own merits and shortcomings. Let’s take a closer look:
- Tinder/Bumble
These two platforms are like the ultimate playgrounds for those in search of love. Everyone here is looking for a partner. This makes it efficient, as you know that it’s not a question of whether she’s looking for a guy, but whether you are the one who can convince her that you are her best choice.
However, these platforms come with a caveat: to initiate a conversation, you first need to match. This means your profile game needs to be strong. Lucky for you, we’re experts at crafting alluring profiles.
- Instagram/Facebook
These platforms cater more to an older demographic (30+). They offer the advantage of being able to message anyone, without needing a match first. However, keep in mind that not everyone here is actively looking for a relationship, making it less efficient than Tinder or Bumble.
Regardless of the platform you choose, your #1 priority should be twofold:
- Firstly, get a match. This requires a standout profile, and we’ve got you covered on that front.
- Secondly, get her out for a date. There are two approaches to this: a lengthy conversation or a brief one. The long conversation approach can be obsolete, and we prefer keeping it short, with 3-10 messages before asking her out. Don’t worry, we’ll address any concerns if she prefers to talk more before meeting.
Remember, the goal isn’t to master a dating platform; it’s to master the art of dating itself. That’s where we come in. We’re here to assist you every step of the way as you navigate the online dating realm. Let’s get started!